Don't take it for granted that your married life is broken

In the very last stage of expecting a baby, everyone can really be on their toes for the birth of the new family member. Even if we are looking forward to it, we may not be able to prepare for what awaits us. Because many events can affect childbirth, but also life at home.

The maternity period is not only about getting used to the baby and mother, but also a period of healing and strengthening. At the same time, during this period, it becomes clear what kind of baby has moved into the family. Crying? Aren't you sleepy? Stomach ache? Or their opposite?

Whatever the answer, it is certain that the person of the mother is the most important for the little one, which is accompanied by high workload and little sleep. This is the case even if fate has blessed someone with an infinitely calm baby. The next feeding every 2-3 hours requires energy from the woman. And of course, life doesn't stop because a new family member moved into the house. In the same way, the woman who is responsible for running the household is a wife (and possibly a mother). And as a wife, it should be produced even in bed. Not only because it is the husband's expectation, but also because of yourself. Your libido and confidence in your body should be restored.

Yet how can one do this for whom physicality is abundant in his current life?

If the man is understanding and sees that his partner is screwed, he doesn't get hysterical for sex. It also gives time for recovery and for the woman to find the right balance between the baby and the rest of the family. In addition to time, all this can be helped by communication. Not only the woman should talk about her feelings and thoughts, but also the man. This is how desires and facts can be revealed. Sooner or later the two will meet if they want to.

With a tiny baby, it is by no means the intention that the woman's partner will leave her, therefore, in addition to talking about the change in sexual life, it may be advisable to choose a somewhat practical time to spend together. Of course, you can deviate from this, but it makes you realize that it is also necessary to focus on this area. You don't have to rigidly stick to the appointed time, because sex arising from spontaneous situations has a great charm and effect.

Of course, it is not only about sexual needs, but also about the emotional charge, which the little one has completely appropriated.

Even the best, most devoted mother has a break. So whoever can, has help, shouldn't be such a martyr that he doesn't use it occasionally. You don't have to be away from your little one for days, but if a couple gets 1-2 hours a week, try to use it for yourself.

Anyone who has experienced it knows that with one or more children, nothing goes as we imagine. That is why you have to be flexible in terms of time, space and attitude when it comes to sex.

During this period, perhaps there is no time for excessive romanticism, especially not for extended periods of time together, but perhaps there is no need for this. On the other hand, it is important to pay attention to each other and not push ourselves, because taking care of the baby is an activity that requires time and energy.

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