Don't let him go, because you're also leaving yourself!

The huge emotional charge that appears at the beginning of the relationship cannot be compared to the one that was transformed into love and mutual respect during the years of habit and living together. The security that a good relationship provides can be forgotten. That means you no longer have to court, conquer, or attract attention.

The desire to go for a walk hand in hand, for a romantic dinner, or to go to the movies together can be anticipated, but it may be more difficult to maintain this atmosphere at home. Sexual desire also declines, and if we don't pay attention to each other, the decline is classified as extinction.

Relationships have dynamics and it depends on the parties. Even if the chemistry between lovers is very good, the desire and frequency will change over time. There is no problem with this as long as one, the other, or both parties do not feel neglected and left alone in their relationship. Science also says that after four years this chemistry wears off. We would rather put it this way: it transforms. Our partner is no longer everywhere and always on our mind. Not because we don't want or love him. We feel safe and secure in our relationship, so the priority is placed elsewhere.

It's completely natural if instead of romantic moments, it's taken over by cozy cuddling movies, but you shouldn't let the desire you feel for each other die out. If we find ourselves letting go of our partner in such a way that we have been using the bed only for sleeping for weeks or even months, then it is worth taking care of ourselves a little first. We mean to think about what aroused our desire a long time ago. All this can be done during a relaxing, stress-relieving bath. Think about the process of seduction and how you will carry it out. Yes, there are many things to pay attention to in this mature and changed relationship. The children may be busy around you, but you still need to find a way and time to tune in to each other. Testing as if everything is fine is not a solution either.

Talk about the fact that if this continues, you will grow apart. Who knows, things may surface that are better discussed. It is possible that this will not be simple and without controversy, but there is nothing worse than couples not even trying to repair their relationship. You can be honest and open with each other. This does not mean criticizing the other person, but you can even bring to the surface desires that you have not spoken to each other about so far. And this also applies to sexual desire.

A relationship that is held together by strong emotional threads and is only distracted by everyday life from paying attention to each other can easily be extinguished. But for that you have to do and talk.

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