The shady side of motherhood

It is not by chance that many people are afraid to start a family. Although they have no experience with children without children, they may perceive the work and responsibilities of raising one or more children in their environment and in their own families. It is not a small task in time, money, or the nervous system, however, every parent can tell how much beauty and happiness their children bring. And the tongue of balance will be weighed down by the weight of happiness with the children.

With the birth of a baby, a woman becomes a mother, a man becomes a father. This is an idyllic state. Unfortunately, we are increasingly living in a world where single mothers, voluntarily or for some other reason, raise their children. Self-esteem can thus be further impaired. Even in a happy relationship, having a baby together can damage our self-esteem.

A woman's body develops a fetus, which is not only wonderful but also a great physical change and exertion. With nine months to wait, the baby will be born, but pregnancy can leave traces on the female body that may accompany their lives. Skin that is broken during pregnancy will always be visible, even if we can alleviate it. The place of the cesarean section, even if it covers the lingerie, still accompanies the woman's life. The whole body may change and, after giving birth, return to some degree, it will never be exactly the same as it was before pregnancy.

Experienced and experienced mothers can tell you what everyday life with a tiny baby and toddler is like, but every toddler is different. Most people trust that their own child will not have stomach pain, will not be overly agonized by toothache, will not believe, because it will provide proper education. However, the practice is different. Even if dreams come true, babies need to stay overnight, later they try to push boundaries, they are curious about everything, so they have to be constantly on the trail. Loss of comfort due to sleeplessness can also increase tension.

The life you lived before having a child is a thing of the past. The birth of a baby makes a big difference, but it also has the financial implications of raising a baby. The salary of a woman who is at home with her child is reduced to a minimum, so there may be financial difficulties. Thus, the fact that a woman who has given birth to a child does not feel useful enough may also contribute to a decrease in self-esteem. And if you want to work the same as you did before your pregnancy, you may not be taken back to the job you came from. Even if she was promised before giving birth, she wasn't sure. While your child is at home, there are many areas where changes can occur, so if you are unable to train yourself, you may find yourself with a lot of backlog.

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