What we associate with each trauma depends on our brain

There are disappointments, sad and painful events in everyone's lives. It wasn't something we planned to do. We can lose big money, we can lose our wealth. In addition to the tangible goods, people can come and go in our lives, and it is not just the disappearance of human relationships, but also those who love us very much who can leave. The great love disappointments also fill the heart of man. What do you usually advise?

Time heals all wounds. It is a cliché that is easier to pronounce than to accomplish. Probably we would also like to give advice to those who are trying to put their lives together, themselves. A divorce, the end of a relationship, and the pain of passing away, weighs heavily on the human soul. It can be difficult to recover from it. Some people need more time to do this, others are able to get through traumatic situations faster, to know behind them.

All tragic and / or traumatic situations can be shocking. But even the terrible tragedy that we at first feel like we will never be able to stand up, somehow resolves somehow, but shakes us up. We usually say that the pain of the soul decreases over time. Our brain is constantly working to solve the problems. Although it will take time for us to process loss and pain later on, this is much more due to our mind than time.

Not all traumas are tragic. Even though it is of similar importance in our lives. In time our souls can be strengthened, and it is also irrelevant what emotions we associate with certain events.

When we have to live a serious event, we also associate memories and feelings when we store it in our brain. We can revive it at any time, get it out and make the feeling come back to life thanks to the memories. But if we try to remain optimistic even in the most difficult situation, to associate with a more positive thought, it will call good emotions later on.

However, our brain is not always able to immediately understand what is happening around us. A rupture, after a death, as if he was confident that he would continue. There is still hope for life when we are almost certain that the relationship is finally closed or that the dead will not come to life. It would be different if our emotions attached to each trauma were positive. Loss and pain processing could be faster and easier.

How we respond to some of the more serious events can be behavior based on a home-made pattern. For the other generation, how we behave in a tragic situation.

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