What others see about you

I have learned throughout my life that my life is mine. No one else lives but me, so only those to whom I let it have the right to have a say. Moreover, even if I am receptive to others, it does not mean that I do everything as they say. Of course, I have a filter that usually works well. Thanks to my openness, I accept good ideas, helpful advice and leave negative ones behind. Of course, it all doesn't work well, or rather it just doesn't work properly in my case, but then I can only blame myself.

Most of us agree that everyone wants to present themselves in the best light, that is, to show their best selves. And they don't necessarily stare at your make-up, your clothes, your body shape. Our behavior also reveals a lot about us. We can greatly spoil or shape other people's opinion of us to our advantage.

Our posture can be more opinion-forming than words. Because of my height (180 cm) and straight posture, I have been called arrogant and arrogant on several occasions. Of course, only until they spoke to me in person. Posture has such an effect on others. We influence others by the way we shake hands when getting to know each other, but a smile is of great importance even if we were completely unknown to each other until then. The presence or avoidance of eye contact is also revealing, as is fiddling with our hands, constantly stomping back and forth, or a hunched posture.

At the same time, the outside world learns a lot about us based on how we greet others. A friendly, respectful person who observes the rules of etiquette can be sympathetic.

Sometimes less is more. As the saying goes, you still have to go above and beyond when it comes to dressing up. That is, they also judge based on what we wear. Too much, too extreme, too colorful, the unusual attracts attention, as does too little. Of course, today everyone is looking for their own style and we try to be very unique, but in reality we would be naked, because everyone is so different.

There are things that are not visible, or at least not immediately and not from afar. However, they can also judge you based on personal hygiene. Although sweating is a natural process, there is no need to expose others to that smell. Untidy hands and inadequately clean clothes also leave a mark on others.

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