Good and best. Big difference in friendship

Have you noticed around you that there are people who have a lot of friends? Well, that may be so, but who would go to hell for that person? Who is this great friendly person to count on?

The real best friends stay there even when there are problems and life is not all smiles. Indeed, a true friend is one who…

... he is not afraid to say it if he thinks differently than you do. Just because you're true friends doesn't mean he doesn't have his own thoughts, and if he does, it's always the same as yours.

... not only at the party, he is with you and by your side, but also when you are sinking into the depths. He may be the one trying to pull you out of the depths (of course, you have to want it too).

… how he tries to comfort you and show you the way out, but if you feel too sorry for yourself and stumble around in one place, he spurs you to action.

... that if he tells you what bad qualities you have, you will not only accept them, but maybe even try to pay attention to them and polish them.

... that he is not only interested in you when he has some ulterior motive, but also tries to maintain the relationship continuously. Of course, this also requires that all of this be bilateral.

... that what is important to you is also important to him. That's why you want to participate in all the events that are important to you. Of course, this doesn't work without reciprocity either.

... that he is not jealous of your success and happiness. The other thing is that he also wants something similar, if his personal life or work is not the best, but he is never jealous of you. You can sincerely be happy about everything that brings you happiness.

... that he understands your jokes, even if they're lame or crude. And in the same way, he is able to read between the lines, that is, he also perceives unspoken words.

... that you can safely trust him with your secrets, because you are sure that he has them in a good place. Of course, he expects the same from you.

... that he listens patiently even if a topic has been on the table for quite some time.

... that it is still present in our lives years later. Even if circumstances have changed since then, you may have moved physically away from each other. Today, there are so many opportunities and ways to communicate in real time even without a personal meeting. You take advantage of this.

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